Tuesday, March 11, 2014

2014-11 - Abandon your usual ways of thinking...

Imagine for a moment you're driving home from work, and that you've had a pretty rough day. As you drive along, your eyes see the road before you, but your mind is in the past re-running all of the day's unpleasant events. Over and over again, you feel that painful stab of some thoughtless remark, or the embarrassment of that stupid comment you made without thinking. And with each mental replay of this scene, you go deeper and deeper into thought, desperately trying to find a way to escape what seems an intolerable situation.

But what you don't see happening to you is that the more you think, the more you sink! And the deeper you sink in thought, the less you're able to see what the rest of you is doing. Driving reckless, speeding, missing the exit you want - these are only a few of the foolish things that happen to you while driving under the influence of a stream of self-compromising, self-wrecking thoughts. Your life, is actually out of your hands. It belongs to your thinking, to the "me" mind. This undeveloped nature doesn't understand what it's doing as it struggles to find a way out from under the weight of its own unconscious actions.

What the "me" mind doesn't understand is that freedom is a state of being. But there's good reason for this lower nature's ignorance, as well as for its covert efforts to keep us asleep in a similar state. The "me" mind is out of business the moment we wake up to realize that free is what we are, each time we can catch ourselves about to build another prison out of thought. Our awakened awareness instantly cancels our captivity. And as our self-created bondage fades, so does our desperate need to escape! What the "me" mind doesn't want us to know is that we're already free.

~ Guy Finley excerpt from 'Freedom From the Ties that Bind'



"Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us."

~ Stephen Covey

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

2014-10 - Deliver the value...

When you have to choose between getting it done and getting it perfect, get it done. Don't let the desire for perfection be an excuse for never finishing.

Do your very best with the time and resources you have. Even if the results are not perfect, they will nonetheless bring great value.

By all means, let perfection be your goal. Just be sure not to let it become your excuse.

Be true to the highest standards you can envision, while at the same time being realistic about what you’re doing. Your magnificent vision will be of no use to anyone unless it is expressed in some specific, tangible form.

Even if you can't get it perfect, go ahead and get it done. Achieving ninety-five percent of what you envision is much better than holding out for one hundred percent and never getting it done.

Though it won't be perfect, and not everyone will like it, go ahead and deliver the value that you create.

~ Ralph Marston




Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.

~Albert Einstein

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

2014-09 - The little wave...

This story is abut a little wave, bobbing along in the ocean, having a grand old time.

He's enjoying the wind and the fresh air - until he notices the other waves in front of him, crashing against the shore. "My God, this terrible", the wave says. "Look what's going to happen to me!"

Then along comes another wave. It sees the first wave, looking grim, and it says to him: "Why do you look so sad?"

The first wave says: "You don't understand! We're all going to crash! All of us waves are going to be nothing! Isn't it terrible?"

The second wave says: "No, you don't understand. You're not a wave, you're part of the ocean."

~ Mitch Albom in "Tuesdays with Morrie"



"Sometimes we need to quit thinking only about ourselves, and look at the bigger picture!"

~ Amy Alusa

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

2014-07 - The problem with dandelions...

A man who took great pride in his lawn found himself with a large crop of dandelions. He tried every method he knew to get rid of them. Still they plagued him.
Finally he wrote to the Department of Agriculture. He enumerated all the things he had tried and closed his letter with the question: "What shall I do now?"
In due course, the reply came: "We suggest you learn to love them."
~ Author Unknown



"If you would be loved, love, and be loveable."

~ Benjamin Franklin


Tuesday, February 4, 2014

2014-06 - Rocky...

I am about to tell you why the story of Sylvester Stallone should be taught to inspire everyone to pursue their dreams. Have you ever wondered why he has such a 'unique' expression? He was born paralyzed in the lower left part of his face as a result of which, his speech was slurred. Death rattle for an acting career... right?
When he came to New York City to be an actor, nobody wanted to hire him. At one point, he went for three weeks sleeping at the New Jersey Bus Terminal since he was so broke. Things got so bad, he had to sell his loyal companion, his dog, to a stranger for $25. It was his lowest point.
Then, one day, he got an idea for a screenplay while watching Muhammad Ali box. He didn't sleep the whole weekend, and banged out the script for Rocky in 3 days.
Eventually, he found producers who offered him, a man who was so broke that he had sold his dog, $125,000 for the screenplay. But there was a catch, he couldn't act in it.
He walked away. He was broke, but he had a dream to be an actor, so he walked away.
Weeks later, they offered him $325,000; but he still said no. They eventually let him act in the movie, but only paid him $35,000. Out of this amount, he immediately spent $15,000 on tracking down and buying back his best friend, his dog. The dog is in the movie.
Rocky made $200 million.
~ Author Unknown



"It ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving on. That's how winning is done."
~ Sylvester Stallone (As Rocky)